Feeling lost? Believe me, you’re not alone.

Halfway through my college career, I made a significant decision: I changed my major. Many students have felt the pull to switch into a new path, but realized the new path is much more rockier than expected. For me, this was not an easy choice, and it left me feeling lost in a sea of uncertainty. I had entered college with a clear vision of becoming a nurse, but somewhere along the way, I realized that my true passion lay elsewhere. Yet, despite this change, one thing remained constant - I knew I wanted to be in a job of service. 

If you find yourself questioning your major or career path, know that it’s okay to feel lost. It’s a natural part of the journey. When I switched my major, I worried about what others would think and whether I was making the right choice. But over time, I discovered that being lost can be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It allows you to explore new interests, develop new skills, and ultimately find a path that truly resonates with you.

Find Your Anchor

During this period of uncertainty, I focused on what I knew for sure: I wanted to help others. This became my anchor. For those who feel lost, finding your anchor—whether it’s a long-term goal, a passion, or a set of values—can provide direction and purpose. It’s not about having all the answers right now, but about understanding what drives you and using that as a guide.

Explore Resources and Seek Support

Feeling lost can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Here are some resources and tips that helped me, and that I believe can help you too:

1. Career Counseling: Take advantage of the career counseling services at our Career Development Center (CDC) here at DeSales. They can provide guidance, help you explore different career options, and connect you with opportunities that align with your interests.

2. Networking: Reach out to professors, alumni, and professionals in fields you’re curious about. Networking can open doors to new possibilities and provide valuable insights that come from someone with experience. 

3. Internships and Volunteering: Gaining hands-on experience through internships or volunteer work can help you discover what you enjoy (and what you don’t). It’s also a great way to build your resume and develop practical skills. 

4. Workshops and Seminars: Attend workshops and seminars offered by the CDC. These can provide you with new perspectives, skills, and connections.

5. Mentorship: At the CDC, you can be paired with a DSU Mentor who can offer guidance and support. A mentor can help you navigate your journey, provide advice, and be a sounding board for your ideas and concerns. 

Stay Open and Adaptable

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. Staying open and adaptable can lead you to opportunities you might never have considered. When I first changed my major, I felt like I was starting from scratch. But in reality, I was building on a foundation of skills and experiences that have proven invaluable in my new path. 

If you’re feeling lost, remember that it’s okay. Many of us have been there. Use this time to explore, discover, and grow. Focus on your long-term goals and values, seek out resources and support, and remain open to new possibilities. Your path may not be linear, but it’s uniquely yours, and every step you take brings you closer to where you’re meant to be.

If you need support with where to find a mentor, please log on to Bark and complete the DSU Mentor Request form. The DeSales Career Development Center will connect you with DeSales alumni within your industry. You may also feel free to come visit the Career Center (Dooling 121) during our drop in hours during the semester for any questions!